April 30, 2008
My First Blogs
I have had some really nice conversations with Coach Mary Daubert in the past few weeks. Because of a few issues in my life that have taken a strange turn, I began to question if I could stay on track; and, I continue to be a skeptic about completing the challenges I set out to do. I am here to admit that it's a scary thing for me to go riding with another person. I am terrified to make a mistake and look stupid. Do they have bicycle psychologists for this kind of disorder? I do it because I know that is the only way I will improve my self confidence. This is one of my major hurdles.
Sometimes is takes someone standing in a different corner to see what I cannot see in a mirror. Mary suggested that I read my first blogs and see just what I have accomplished.
Within the last two weeks I have been presented with challenges I didn't ask for, (What's new to all of us, right!). There was a great tool that was on my very own little laptop; I went back and read my first blogs. A year ago I didn't know anything about bicycles and thanks to all my friends, I have learned quite a bit in a year. Sometimes it pays to look back from time to time to see that winding road behind us. I'm learning to love this sport although it's a slow process. I know it will take me forward for years to come. I'm ready to start again.
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April 30, 2008
Seniors On Bikes
This is my Sister Alaine and one of her friends, Clarence. I thought it would be good this week to show another demographic of bicycle riders. Senior riders that are not competing but that use the bicycle for health, fitness and fun. (They were allowed to remove their helmets for the photo opportunity.)
Alaine and Clarence are both retired and barely have any extra time to fit another activity into their schedule. They are both fit and one of their activities that they share is riding their bicycles along the American River in Sacramento. My sister has always been an active volunteer in several charities including the "Make A Wish Foundation" and the "S.P.C.A." Clarence is a retired Professional Engineer. He also shares time with his children on the East Coast.
When I visited Sacramento in March, I was quite aware, as I always am now at this point, how many people were riding bikes in her town. All kinds, all types, all ages. She was taking in her bike for a tune up so we visited the local Trek dealer and spoke to them about many issues. She has recovered beautifully from her back surgery and will now use the bike as a comfortable form of exercise to stay "Well"
Clarence, is in his mid 70"s (I hope he doesn't mind me saying so) and is enjoying his bicycle as well. He is talking about getting a trainer like mine to use indoors during the cold weather months. Isn't the scenery beautiful.
By the way, thank you to everyone for your support this past week.
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April 28, 2008
"Molly" 1998-2008
I know this is very sad for people to read about but please indulge me for a few sentences.
My dear sweet companion Molly passed away this weekend and I want everyone to know that she gave me unconditional love and protection for over 10 years; and the last five of those years we helped each other to fill a big hole in our life together. I am trusting that my heart can once again adjust to another heartbreak, and the space left behind in my life.
I know it will take some time but I also know that somehow life seems to go on and there are new things to learn about tomorrow. Please give me a few days to get my act together and I'll be back on track soon.
"Sweet Molly, I know you will find your way home and be able to run and play once again with your family. Thank you for being my sweet blog helper. I'm missing you so much already." Love, Mom
April 25, 2008
In Just a Few Hours
All is well in Orange County, California. The weekend will start in just a few hours and my time is already scheduled. One of the things I need to work on this weekend is really paying attention to the effects of the heart rate monitor and how it correlates to my exercise; indoors and outside. My dear sweet, patient coach Mary and I have shared discussions this week about my training and she has given me several issues to test out and address. Because I am scheduled to ride tomorrow morning on the mountain bike I will wear the gear and take some notes, hoping it will help me to understand some of the reasons I still get out of breath when I am riding. I already found out the answer to part of that from Mary. When you are dehydrated you heart beats faster. I need to remind myself to keep taking in water AND learn how to drink my liquids while I am in motion on the bike. Oh boy, more things on my practice list.
This week I also attended my first class session, along with daughter Gina regarding Diabetes nutrition education. It seems there are many things I should have looked into before now that would explain how I have been feeling. Exercise coupled with Diabetes can profoundly affect your well being and recovery after a ride. Just when I think I had all the answers, along comes a whole new set of questions. Do we ever stop learning about ourselves? I hope not
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April 23, 2008
Hello Ladies
Hello Ladies, Molly here!
We are putting out an inquiry today to see if there are any of you out there that are interested in participating in the Danskin Triathlon in June, This particular competition will be in the Anaheim, Orange County, California area. If you have already joined or have participated in a previous Tri, I would love to hear about your experiences.
Please check out the Danskin website and read about this great event. Trek is a sponsor for all the Danskin events and they participate quite actively. There are individual competitions and relay teams that you can sign up for. Feel free to contact us and we might be able to provide you with more information and or make a connection for you to answer questions or help you to participate on a team. Several of the "Women Who Ride will be participating across the country and I know we cannot wait to get out to the event location to connect with many of you great women. This will be Mom's first time participating in a relay and I am trying to help her with the blog,so she can get her act together to step up her training.
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April 22, 2008
"The Twins"
One of my All Time favorite sayings is: You have your family you are born with and you have your family you create for yourself. This somewhat of a "mantra' has comforted me through many years of disapointment and joy and I will continue to apply the theory whenever I need comfort and joy to fill up gaps in my life. so, that said;
Here they are; aren't they adorable. Just like paternal twins the mountain bike is much beefier than the road bike. They have both been out in public for their first ride and today the weather is so nice they wanted to breathe in some "Earth Day".
Both babies are quite shy and a little aprehensive of their new passenger, but just like always we will work things out on our own and become a great family. That's what it's all about.
Saturday I will take a class about Mountain Bikes with a bunch of little kids. They will probably have all sorts of stuff that I will learn from their experiences. I have had endless dialogue with Mary Daubert (Coach Mary) about the road bike, and she is mapping out a 12 week program for me to prepare for the Lance Armstrong Challenge in July. (no matter how far I travel on that day it will be a victory) So stay tuned for more Midnight Confessionals and I'll keep you posted on my fears, joy's and mistakes; sometimes Big Ones.
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April 20, 2008
We "Walk" Because We Can
Saturday I joined my daughter Gina and her son Will to participate in a Walkathon. Will is sitting on the statue lap of John Greenleaf Whitter. And this beautiful artwork in located in Whittier's Central Park.
This is the 12th annual 5k fitness walk for the Shelter's Right Hand to benefit the Women's and Children's Crisis Shelter. The walkathon helps to support the end to domestic violence and to create awareness of a safe place in the community where women can get help. I feel that it is important for people to be aware of all the good work that is being done to help people in need.
Notice I am wearing my Dream Bikes t-shirt which is another good project to get people on bicycles within their means. There are a lot of good projects in our communities; take the time to investigate, and perhaps get a little exercise in as a bonus. We were pround of Will because he did the walk and was able to walk another mile back to the car. He is only 6 but I think he is on the fitness path.
On the same firness note, I am very proud of my daughter Gina who was diagnosed with Diabetes this week. Although she has made some big progress on her long term fitness goals, she handled this setback like a trooper and it's only going to make her persevere with more ambition. The whole family is making healthy choices, including the boys. Today is a way to celebrate, with a walk in the sunshine. Gina would like to join her sister and I in next year's Danskin Triathlon by being our relay swimmer. She was on the varsity swim team in high school and is determined to get back to the place of her own design. I promised to support her with her goal and we are going to support each other with our diabetes training by taking classes at the hospital. Take a look out there and see how you can support someone and make them feel good about the challenges that they are facing; people need support not lectures. It will make you feel very empowered in the right way.
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April 16, 2008
"We found Christy"
I received a long letter today from Christy. If you recall we featured her as a guest with an interest in bicycling. Here is what happened. Her husband got a great job offer and they moved from her lifelong home in Colorado to North Bend Washington. What a change don't you think? I told her that it will be a great experience for her and to enjoy the special time together with her husband.
She went on to tell me that since this move took place within such a small window of opportunity, she decided to leave her Trek bike behind with her nephew, and he is in 7th heaven learning about independence.
FABULOUS...Now she can go out and look for a new bike and she has already paid a visit to the Trek dealer, Singletrack Cycles. Christy tells me that they are really promoting the WSD program and will let her test ride the bikes, Of course they will.
So as soon as they get moved from temporary headquarters, she is going to get back on track, or path or trail and keep us posted on her equipment choices. By the way, Christy is my "Niece", and, I am so proud and happy that she has chosen to keep in touch with me even though her Uncle Cliff has passed. Thanks for the friendship Christy because we share a lot of "stuff".
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April 14, 2008
I always remember the 1st time
Sunday, Guru Bruce and I went to the Bike Trail so I could try out my road bike, for the first time OFF the trainer. According to "Guru" I am at a tremendous learning curve right now. I am glad he went along because when I get stressed either physically or mentally, he can calm me down by talking me through the process.
First of all, we were riding on an asphalt bike trail about 5 miles from Anaheim, Ca, the hottest (100 degrees) place in the nation yesterday.
- The hydration process is very important and I learned you must start this prior to the ride. "Guru" even had me turn off the air conditioner, open the windows and acclimate to the heat on our way to the trail.
- I managed to get a pretty bad sunburn on my back; yes I was wearing a jersey and I burned right through the fabric. I will use sunblock in the future.
- Practiced using the new type gears that are on the brakes. By eliminating the number system, I am learning to go by feel which is much easier for me.
- The thing that had the biggest impact on me was starting out too fast. I didn't want him to think I was a weakling. Next time I will start out slow and pace myself so I can get comfortable and enjoy the ride for a longer period.
- Bruce is a tough teacher because he let's me make my mistakes. He knows I listen but I wouldn't always think it through the same way as actually putting suggestions into practice.
I look forward to next weekend so I can apply my lessons learned the best way.
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April 14, 2008
"Molly" to the rescue
Molly has been slowing down these days and she is board. She is 10 years old now and has arthritis in her front shoulders. She is somewhat depressed and has confided in me that she hates it when she becomes "Wendy Whiner" So we talked more and since her exercise is limited to when she feels like walking, I have decided she needs something to occupy her time, other that watching television. All of us "Seniors" need to feel important and she is no exception.
Here is what we decided to do. I need someone that can pitch in and help with some of my paperwork and administrative tasks and "M" has happily agreed to become my assistant. What a win, win idea.
From time to time you will hear from her putting out information looking for answers and so forth. If you want to direct questions to her, it will make her feel very important. She will be working from her home office.
My gosh, I loaned her my glasses, got her a steno pad (she is from the old school) and look, she has turned into an "Animal" with a purpose.
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April 11, 2008
"Time Flies"
I don't know where this week has gone, but along with it, my energy disappeared too. There seems to be so many things filling up my calendar, (what a lucky girl) that I need to take some time in the next few days to re-group my thoughts. I also wanted to take a minute to bring you up to date on breaking news this week and give you a preview of what I have on the horizon to write about.
Fist of all, in the past 6 days, I have completed the delivery of the "Twins"; an investment in my future in order to take care of myself later in life. I now have the Mountain Bike and the Road Bike. So pictures of the un-named newbies are in order. On that note I cannot delay in getting out to ride and establish a level of comfort for myself. My top priority is the road bike so I can prepare for the LIVESTRONG Challenge in July. Along those lines I have plans to introduce you to Andrew who is my main contact and team leader for this event. He is getting together a couple pictures of himself and his family, I hope. By the way, my fabulous CycleOps trainer has been a great help with the new bikes. I can get them going in the late evening trying to get a feel for the bikes and learn a little more about the new types of gears.
My dilemma is everything else I want and need to accomplish. A 60 mile bike ride that I would like to "DO" in May, a walkathon with my grandsons next week, a class reunion in July and the Danskin Triathlon in June. I need to be realistic here and make some choices about what I can do and what I need to save for another day. I still have to save energy for my training schedule and oh yes, my other job as an Office Manager.
Here is the big news and opportunity that I will not pass up. I have been invited to be a delegate in the Lance Armstrong LIVESTRONG Summit in July. They are flying me to Columbus, Ohio for 4 days where I will participate in Grassroots Advocacy training for Cancer Awareness at Ohio State University. This has always been my other passion and I am so excited and honored to have been chosen. This is just another ball that is already rolling fast and not only have I already begun to make new contacts, but I am steering them to the Trek website as a way to establish a connection and introduce myself. I'll get more thoughts together this weekend, some pictures of the "Twins" and keep information flowing out for you to read.
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April 8, 2008
"Delivered"
I look much better today than I ever looked after my other deliveries, (no this is not a picture of me). Yes, it's here and just like a puppy, even though it's a WSD bicycle, it might need a name that can apply to either gender. I'm speaking of my "new to me" Mountain Bike, Trek Fuel EX 7, and it's adorable. You know what I like best about it? It already looks as though I have been riding it and somehow that is better for my persona. What you say, nice bike" "Yeah, it is huh, thanks" Top priority for the 61 year old lady, I mean lady of 61 years, "Look Cool"
When I was at the bike shop picking up my gear, I looked all confident with my muddy tires. You can always count on the Demo Chicklets, (thanks Ross) for having my back. Now, when I visit the bike shop, the young guys ask me when I am going to join them in Carbon Canyon. I just reply "I'll do that as soon as I can free up some time in my schedule." What I really mean is; I have a class next weekend with the other 12 year olds that received Mountain Bikes for Christmas. By the way, a note to my protective sister Alaine, I won't be jumping off any mountains. Can you believe that we have moved into the mind set era of broken hip concerns. I promise I will be careful
On that note I have two significant names in mind for the bike but I must consult my friends before I go forward. I have been thinking that it's only polite when someone else is affected.
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April 6, 2008
"dreambikes"
Many times I get inquiries about where the "deserving" public can purchase a bike. One of the wonderful causes that Trek Bikes supports is a new bike store that will be opening later this month.
"Dream Bikes" is a non-profit bicycle shop designed to help a community in need in many different ways. It provides the youth of the community a professional place to work, and learn the values of job skills for their future. It also will provide access to bicycles and helmets for children and adults that may not otherwise be able to afford them. Bicycles of course are fun to ride but also offer a means of transportation to school, work and a great way to exercise.
I am discovering more and more of these type of businesses that are popping up to receive and rebuild donated bicycles with the help of companies such as Trek that are supportive by donating bicycles, parts and accessories. There is another business of this sort in Los Angeles California called The Bicycle Kitchen, and I am hoping to make a trip out there to visit in the future.
Here is what I would like to see, If you know of a business of this type in your area, where we can direct future bicycle riders to get started, please pass the information along by a reply to my posting. It can take just a moment to pass along the information and you will have the opportunity to make a difference. This is exactly what we want to support, the Bicycle Culture.
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April 5, 2008
"A Watched Pot Never Boils"
It always happens, and never fails to amaze me, when you are waiting for something, it always takes longer. According to UPS my bike was to arrive on Thursday and I have been holding back on the introductions through my blog. By Friday night, the bike had been located, will be assembled and checked out on Saturday morning (Today) and I am going to see if I can pick it up by noon in order to take a test ride.
In the meantime I have been trying to busy myself and getting other chores completed. That way, I will be guilt free and available to spend time with my new family member.
Here is what I have accomplished:
- Cleaned the carpets
- Shampooed Molly (my doggie)
- New spring plants in my front entrance way
- Cleaned the garage (making room for more equipment
- Balanced my checkbook before going to the bicycle store (it's hard not to spend there)
- Laundry, laundry, laundry
- Touch up paint on the walls, affected by moving bicycles around a small area.
Now it wouldn't be fun unless I left a few things on the "To Do" list, but one important thing to do today...watch the NCAA basketball tournament. What a surprise, I'm rooting for UCLA
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April 3, 2008
"The New Twins"
Ok, so what happened to that insecure, and naive girl that showed up last August to join the Women Who Ride Program. I'm still here, a little less insecure and not so naive at all. What I have learned to accept is that I have a window of opportunity here that is more the size of a porthole. This means that I have developed this sense of urgency to accomplish all these little adventures that are on my list. The Bicycle has become a huge part of my lifestyle and I seem to schedule most of my free time around riding, training and procuring more "Stuff", as well as writing, taking photos and sharing as much as I can.
I did it because I wanted to. I have no family to care for (my girls are self sufficient and fabulous) and I needed to build a new life for myself. This Trek opportunity came to me at a perfect time and I promised to be the best bicycle representative that I could be. I share my bikes with my friends so they can experience what I am enjoying and I try to be a good example and inspiration for my mature sisters who happen to run into my story. Am I justifying my bicycle inventory to myself? You bet, but you have to admit I was limited to what I wanted to accomplish with my other equipment. So today I will pick up my new gal pal and bring her home to meet the other members of the Trek Sisterhood; Barbie and Lucy. This will almost be considered a Twin delivery (paternal of course) with my Mountain Bike to arrive first and shortly thereafter my Road Bike will deliver by next week. I need to become acquainted with the Twins before I decide on names. I don't know if I want to give them their own identity or something that will be significant to our cycle family.
Yes, I know it is a lot to bite off but I need to do this for myself. One of my friends told me today "You have really grown since Cliff passed away." I replied, "I had to, in order to survive." Stay tuned for all my new adventures. Remember, coming up on my calendar are two community classes that I signed up for that will familiarize me with my new equipment.
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April 2, 2008
"My other Trainer"
I've got a really good set up right now and I don't take any of my perks for granted, I use all the resources I can, while I have them available to me.
This is my friend David Cummings and he has agreed to help me out with the training information that Mary Daubert sends to me. I print everything out and bring it to David who helps me put it into practice. If I am doing something incorrectly, he takes the opportunity to offer the corrections required so I stay on track. It's all working really well. Did I say how lucky I am to have all these opportunitities and tools. Yup, I'm here to say it once again. From the down days if you hang in there for just one additional day, there will be a rainbow with your name on it.
This week David did a nice feature article about me in his training newsletter. He included the links to the Trek website as well as the Women Who Ride site. I thought that was so nice of him to give me the press because he shares the same mission about the benefits and fun you can have when you get active. Many of his clients are of the mature age group, need I say more?
So, this is just another kind of resource to look into when you are looking for a fresh start. Check out the kind of information David has to offer from his website. etrainerz on line
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