Trek Women
November 20, 2007

Guru Or Gigolo

20071120083021921_0001_3As a single woman I have to be careful about the men that come my way.  I have a list of criteria that usually eliminates everyone.  No it's not designed that way on purpose; well maybe it is. 

  1. Will my life be better if he is in it?
  2. Is there something new that I can learn? 
  3. Does he see the finish line with me?
  4. Does he like children and animals?
  5. Is he health conscious?
  6. Does he ride a bike?
  7. Does he respect Lance Armstrong (Again, more material for another story you wouldn't believe)

That is the first of a very long list of which I will postpone sharing right now because it really doesn't matter; I am not shopping for a man.  It doesn't matter if I am in love with someone right now or not.  What is important is that I have stuff to do and unless I can comfortably share all of the above, it's not a fit.  One thing I have learned along the way, nothing in life stays the same but "change" so if you know me, you know I am open to whatever life puts in front of me.  If it sticks, it's meant to be. 

All my younger readers,which is just about everyone, know this;  Be open to new experiences but don't work too hard looking for them.  Your life is ready to show itself to YOU.  Put on those Rose-Colored glasses and take a look.  He's probably right in front of you.

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